Ernesto Likes to Call Me Mami


Ernesto Likes to Call Me Mami

Jan Becker


Ernesto likes to call me Mami.

“Mami,” he says,

“you got to face facts. You are a big beautiful

Earthmothergoddesswoman. Man,

you gotta love that, Mami

cause it’s the truth.”


I got curves,

that’s for sure.

A big round belly like the Venus

of Willendorf,

legs that have stood on the top of Gibraltar,

feet that walked through the

Atlas Mountains of Africa

and shoulders that shrugged.


My arms

have held down dying bodies,

crackwhores begging for medication,

pregnant women in seizures

borderline IQ children who probably weren’t

retarded, but

came from South Philadelphia.


My fingers dig holes in the garden for

wormwood and thyme,

pennyroyal, rosemary, basil and sage.

Fingers sift dirt like flour

chop garlic

grasp tissues, dry tears.


When I was a small girl,

I knew I would grow big tetas

because I need a chest this big to carry the pain.


Me, Earthmothergoddesswoman

a big mami with curves:

Yeah,

I gotta love it.